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Tel Me What You Want… What You Really, Really Want
Are you manifesting what YOU really want, or what someone else wants?
You know you sang that title, c’mon, fess up! But seriously, do you really know what you want? Or do you want what your family, friends, teachers, boss, and society wants you to want?
Think about all the things in life you “want”… your goals, your dreams. Now consider, are they really your goals and dreams?
Are you in the career you’re in because it was your dream, or because a guidance counselor and your parents said it was a good fit for you and that’s where you should be?
Do you live in a location you love, or is it the location where you grew up or somehow just ended up? You’re not a tree. You can move.
What do you do in your free time? Do you do what your friends or spouse want to do, or do you enjoy a hobby you love? You can do both.
Sadly, these are examples of how we end up where we are in life and suddenly wonder one day, “What the hell happened?!”
Are these the goals and dreams you’re trying to grow and manifest into your life?
If they’re not your true goals, the dreams deep in your heart of hearts, then all the vision boards and affirmations likely won’t being them into reality. And if they do, you’ll wonder why they aren’t making you happier.
Now that you’ve had some time to think about it (and maybe beat yourself up a little over it… oh, and stop that, by the way!) Tell me what it is that you really, really want.
When you blow out your birthday candles, what do you think of when you close your eyes for that quick moment.
When you look up in the evening and see the first star, what wish suddenly crosses your mind?
What daydream do you often catch yourself in?
I’m guessing that these dreams pop into your mind, but you shut them down just as quickly, because…
…they’re too silly, they aren’t important, they’re not realistic.
I’m serious about taking some time and really thinking about this. What do YOU really WANT?
After thinking about this for a while (a very long while as you fight off all the “it’s not realistic” self talk) you might have a little better idea of what you really want in life. Now you can take last week’s lesson and put those wishes and dreams into present tense positive affirmations or manifestations.
When your goals are truly yours AND you affirm them in the present tense, you will begin to see them. When they align with who you really are and you focus on achieving them, you will feel that happiness and success you are looking for when they finally happen.
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